PART 2: Improv helps you care about others.
In Part 1, we talked about the importance of the ability to make decisions. Now we’re talking about which decisions to make. And ideally, they’re decisions that will help the team you’re leading.
Imagine you’re on stage with someone. And they start the scene by saying, “Well, I hope you’re happy now.” In Part 1 we talked about all the decisions that need to be made to help build the world out of imagination. What did you do? Who would ask you that? What’s the context? Etc. All decisions you could make by going in your head and rummaging around for answers.
Now let’s shift outside ourselves and focus on them. How did they say it? Annoyed? Angry? Almost laughing? How are they looking at you? How close/far are they standing? What do they want from you? Like is it funnier TO THEM if you say that you are happy now?
In other words, improv teaches you to care about your scene partner(s). In real life, you can think of your “scene partner” as anyone you’re having an interaction with. Be present with them. What are they feeling? What do they want out of this conversation?
Humans tend to think other people think like they do. And often get frustrated when they don’t. But with improv, you quickly learn to be open to different ways of thinking, and even more important, appreciate different ways of thinking. So in a leadership position, you learn it isn’t about teaching your staff to be more like you, or that you’re the only one who knows how to do it “right,” but appreciating people for who they are, and what they can bring to the table.
In other words, you learn to let go. Leading isn’t about control. At first, out of fear, people often try to steer conversations/situations to where they want it to go, or to where they think it should go. But it’s hard to control others, and make them say or do everything you want. It’s frustrating. So with improv, you give up control, and the next thing you know, you’re sharing an experience where the collective ideas are way better than your individual ones would’ve been.
In conclusion, if you want to care more about others, a key leadership skill, you should definitely try improv.
